Cara, Ugo

February 1960 - March 2023
IT IS WITH HEAVY HEARTS THAT WE ANNOUNCE THE PASSING OF OUR BELOVED FRIEND, FATHER AND HUSBAND, UGO CARA ON MARCH 11,2023. LOVING FATHER TO ISABELLA AND GIORDANO, HUSBAND TO SYLVIA ASTO. UGO WAS A FIERCE DEFENDER OF THOSE HE LOVED. A PASSIONATE LAWYER, A MAN FULL OF COURAGE AND INTEGRITY, WITHSTANDING LIFE’S BIGGEST CHALLENGES. HE ALWAYS PUT OTHERS FIRST. HE WENT THOUGH THE BATTLES OF LIFE, FACED FAILURE, DEFEATS AND SUCCESS, PREVAILING UP UNTIL HIS LAST BREATH WITH GOD BY HIS SIDE. HE WAS AS REAL AS YOU CAN GET AND DIDN’T HOLD BACK WHO HE WAS AND WHAT HE BELIEVED IN.THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS THE SENSE OF LOSS WE WILL ALL FEEL WITHOUT UGO WITH US.
THERE WILL BE A VISITATION HELD ON THURSDAY, MARCH 16, 2023 AT THE ACCETTONE FUNERAL HOME, 384 FINLEY AVENUE, IN AJAX, FROM 12:00PM TILL TIME OF SERVICE IN THE CHAPEL AT 2:00 PM

Messages of Condolence

I am so sad to hear of Ugo's passing. Ugo was a force of nature with a huge heart. My deepest sympathies to his family and many friends.


Sheila MacKinnon
Toronto
March 18, 2023
Ugo was truly "one-of-a-kind" and unforgettable. Although I remember that he would consider himself a "common man" (like a favourite Dusty...
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Roy Conte
Etobicoke
March 17, 2023
Sincerest condolences on the passing of my friend who, for many years was very much an extended member of my family. Ugo will be missed an...
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Antonio Raviele
Toronto
March 17, 2023
I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. Mr. Cara was always an excellent lawyer and a real gentleman in court. My deepest sympathy to h...
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Mary Ross Hendriks
Toronto
March 17, 2023
Condolences to his wife, children and family. Ugu you will be fondly missed. He was Genuine. Scarborough Legal Aid


Connie Francis
Scarborough
March 17, 2023
I met Ugo not long after I started working at the Crown Attorney's office at 1911 Eglinton as a young twenty something in 2013. Over the...
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Matthew Park
Toronto
March 16, 2023
My condolences to his family and dear friends. May he rest in peace.


Eleanor Shaw
Newmarket
March 16, 2023
Ugo, I first met him as an Articling Student while doing a real estate property search. I asked him for help and without pause or hesitat...
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Paul Scotland
Toronto
March 16, 2023
My deepest condolences to Ugo's wife & children. You are very blessed to have been such an important part of Ugo's life & to have so many ...
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Bebe Jackhan
Scarborough
March 16, 2023
Ugo would sit outside on the bench in front of 311 Jarvis and say, “Emma, let me buy you a coffee.” I’d say, “no, I can’t have anymore cof...
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Emma Rhodes
Toronto
March 16, 2023
After listening to Tom speak, I decided to write another message. Ugo was a loyal friend. He was sensitive and generous. He used to brin...
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Jody
311 Jarvis
March 16, 2023
It is with a sad and heavy heart that I learned of Ugo's death. He was a valued member of the 311 family and one whose memory I will cheri...
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Barboura Ferns
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo will be greatly missed. Isabella and Giordano, your Dad was an amazing man and would be so proud of the words you spoke in his honour....
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Donna Kellway
Ontario Crown Attorneys’ Association
March 16, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Ugo’s passing. I remember him fondly for his quick wit and dedicated advocacy for his young clients. This i...
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Anna Martin
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo always made me see the lighter side of things, doing what is often a tough job. A great sense of humour, a dedicated advocate, and a t...
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Christian Pearce
Toronto
March 16, 2023
So sorry for loss of your husband Hugo


Nancy Buglione
Toronto Ontario
March 16, 2023
I will miss Ugo dearly. He was always a pleasure to work with. He would advocate passionately for his clients, but always with a smile and...
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Brock Jones
Toronto
March 16, 2023
One of the best, fighting the good fight.. he will be missed. May he rest in sweet peace.


Yolande S Edwards
DC Scarborough
March 16, 2023
Hugo was a seasoned Counsel and a fierce defender for his clients. He influenced many lives and I cannot believe he has passed. I pray fo...
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Indira Persad
Toronto
March 16, 2023
So sorry to hear the news of Ugo's passing. I've known Ugo for many years and will certainly miss our conversations. He was a good one and...
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Fred Diamond
Toronto
March 16, 2023
My deepest sympathies to his wife and family. I am truly sorry to hear about his passing and my heart felt condolences to his immediate an...
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Bobbi-Jo Virtue
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Uncle Uggie, you mean so much to me and my family. You were a huge role model in my life. You supported me throughout my journey to becomi...
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Christine Shoniker
Orillia
March 16, 2023
Our son Tom first met Ugo at St.Mikes Campus, University of Toronto. Little then did we realize how the lives of Tom,and all of our famil...
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Mary andThomas Shoniker Senior
Orillia,Ontario
March 16, 2023
So shocked and saddened to hear of Ugo's passing. Of all the lawyers I dealt with over many years in the legal system, never met one who f...
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Paul Heys
Scarborough
March 16, 2023
Ugo, I know you're reading this - you've been one of my finest friends and one who'll stay in my thoughts for all the years to come. Too ...
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Mark Shoniker and family
Pickering
March 16, 2023
Uncle Ugo, You watched me grow up. Some of my first memories are with you snowmobiling on the frozen lakes up in Orillia. We still have ...
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Tommy Shoniker Jr
Traverse City, MI
March 16, 2023
My deepest sympathy to Ugo's family. Such a big loss he was a great lawyer representing the young offenders. Your passion and sense of hum...
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Marlene Gordon
Scarborough
March 16, 2023
.. Ugo gave a voice to many who otherwise would not have had the courage to speak on their own behalf publicly in a courtroom.  He had a s...
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Catherine Shoniker
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo was a graduate of Windsor Law, Class of 1985. Throughout the years as a lawyer he became known and loved by so many who work within ...
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Catherine Shoniker
Toronto
March 16, 2023
My deepest condolences to Ugo's family and friends. I remember Ugo for his energy, enigmatic personality, and boisterous humour. I also kn...
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Justin Chan
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo was a fierce advocate with a big heart. He cared about his clients and negotiated/advocated good outcomes for them without compromisin...
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Liesha Earle
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo will be remembered fondly by the Shoniker/Speyer family. A dedicated family man, a warm and welcoming friend and a person to go to...
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Alison Shoniker
Toronto
March 16, 2023
I’ll never forget the days when Uncle Ugo would visit our house in the summer. Growing up we always referred to him as the fun uncle, with...
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Trevor Shoniker
Kingston
March 16, 2023
When tom first introduced us my first thought was, wow what a 'big guy'. As we became friends, he became the big guy, not because of size...
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Carey Grosberg
Toronto
March 16, 2023
Ugo was one of the 1st defence counsel I was introduced to back in 2001. A kind, humorous and “bigger than life” gentleman who fought fie...
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Heather Cranswick
Scarborough
March 15, 2023
We are so heart broken with the loss of Ugo, He was a great husband, father and friend who was kind, loyal and had the best sense of humou...
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Christine Collins
Scarborough
March 15, 2023
May his memory be for a blessing. He was an amazing advocate. He had no fear of speaking truth to power. In fact, he relished it. We will ...
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Irwin Aisen
Los Angeles
March 15, 2023
I can't believe that UGO is gone. When I first started practice he gave me the best pep talk ---he said: "listen to survive in this busine...
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Cherie D.
Toronto
March 15, 2023
To Ugo's family and friends, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you will find some small comfort in these many heartfelt tributes about th...
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Diana Lumba
Toronto
March 15, 2023
Amazing neighbour and friend. Honest and straightforward and a true pleasure to be around with. He was an amazing father and a great perso...
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Leonid Plukhovskyy
Ajax
March 15, 2023
Ugo was one of a kind. He was a fierce advocate who was instrumental in my early development as a lawyer. My deepest condolences to his fa...
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Adam G.P. Stubbs
Bolton
March 15, 2023
I often worked with Ugo years ago at 311 Jarvis. Such a wonderful man! Great sense of humour, lovely to work with. My deepest condolenc...
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Sandy Thomas
Toronto
March 15, 2023
As so many have said here, Ugo was fierce, generous, funny, ever thoughtful and determined, and well loved. He had open space for everyon...
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Mary Birdsell
Toronto
March 15, 2023
I was graced with knowing and working with Ugo for over 30 years. A strong advocate for the vulnerable, driven by what was right and just ...
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Brian Scully
Toronto
March 15, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Ugo at the 311 Jarvis courthouse, where he always advocated passionately for his youth clients. He ...
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John Sinclair
Toronto
March 15, 2023
Ugo welcomed me to Jarvis Court when I worked there as a first-year lawyer. He was always friendly and helpful. Jarvis Court is a special ...
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Sam Weinstock
Brampton
March 15, 2023
Ugh was a REAL character . You always knew what Ugo was thinking and feeling. He was passionate and genuine. I remember working with Ugo o...
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Laura Liscio
Toronto
March 15, 2023
Condolences to the family, may the precious moments comfort you, knowing he will always live in your hearts.


Michelle Bond
Toronto
March 15, 2023
Ugo was one of the first lawyers that I worked with when I started practicing over 20 years ago. Ugo had an energy and smile that captured...
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Eric Gilman
Toronto
March 15, 2023
It always brought a smile to see Ugo walking toward me in Court, knowing that whatever kind of day I was having, a chat with Ugo would mak...
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Luba Szkambara
Toronto
March 15, 2023
Sincere condolences to the family specifically Sylvia. Not only a friend but a brother who had always been there. Great, courageous, gener...
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Nour Boudarga
Toronto
March 15, 2023
I was always able to talk to Ugo about anything and not feel judged (whether it be law or personal issues). I am so sad I won’t see him a...
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Lisa Pace
Maple
March 15, 2023
Ugo was a true character of the criminal bar and so generous. Back when there was a cafeteria at 311 Jarvis, he was quick to offer to buy ...
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Emma Rhodes
Toronto
March 15, 2023
My sincere condolences to Ugo's family. He was a kind & generous man who always had great stories to share at court. He will be missed.


John Erickson
Toronto
March 15, 2023
I will miss our chats at scarborough court. Ugo was a great advocate and spoke it as it is. I am sorry to hear the sad news. You will be m...
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Nicole Pollock
Toronto
March 14, 2023
After years of friendship, it is very difficult to say goodbye. A man so special can never be forgotten, may his soul rest in peace. Our d...
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Adam Boudarga
Toronto
March 14, 2023
My thoughts and prayers are with Ugo and his family. Ugo will be missed by many of us who worked with him in the court system.


Jan Stiff
Scarborough
March 14, 2023
My condolences to the family. I crossed paths in court with Ugo for over 30 years. He’s already missed


Philip Klumak
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo was a lovely person and never failed to make me smile. I'm sorry for your loss.


Jacqueline Porter
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Uga was a great man, a great lawyer, a great friend. We spent a lot of time together at 311 and Scarborough fighting for the kids, hanging...
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Laurie Galway
478 Ferguson Ave. Haileybury ON
March 14, 2023
My deepest condolences to you Sylvia and your entire family. I know no words can ease your pain. May your happy memories give you peace ...
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Linda Andreevski
Scarborough
March 14, 2023
Ugo Cara was a fierce and strong advocate for the many people he defended. He also always had a smile and a story, even in the face of adv...
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Mike Leitold
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I met Ugo years ago when we had clients that were co-accused. He truly cared about his clients, advocated for their best interests, while ...
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Jenn Myers
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Deepest sympathies to the family. Ugo was a passionate advocate and I remember him being a very proud dad. So sorry to hear of his passi...
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Michelle Sherwood
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I met Ugo 30 years ago when I started working at Scarborough Courts. Such a friendly, generous man, always wanting to chat. You will be mi...
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Linda Ingram
Scarborough Courts VWAP
March 14, 2023
His unabated passion for the law and his tenacious compassion for his fellow human being were a great testament to this lovely man. Deepe...
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Linda McDonnell
Scarborough Courts
March 14, 2023
I had the pleasure of working with Ugo for many years. He was always a gentleman and willing to help out. Ugo was always smiling and very ...
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Renza Cecchetto
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I worked with Ugo at Legal Aid back in 1991 ish , I worked for Helen Carbone and Ugo was a good friend to her and her husband Roy Conte . ...
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Maureen Borg
Ajax
March 14, 2023
I have known Ugo since my Duty Counsel days so many moons ago. For the first time as a Crown, I just had the opportunity of dealing with h...
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Tracey Vogel
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo and I shared many laughs as co counsel on our Scarborough trials way back when. He was a good lawyer, a fun pal and a great man. So ...
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Katrina L Mulligan
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo was a great man that always wanted to help young people in tough situations. You will be missed my friend. My thoughts are with Ugo’s ...
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Sean Nike
Toronto - LAO
March 14, 2023
It has been a decade since I’ve seen Ugo, he was one of my favourite people at Jarvis and Scarborough court! You will be missed my friend,...
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Shane Nike
Omemee
March 14, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Ugo’s passing. He was a kind and committed advocate and a fun guy to run into in the hallways of a court house....
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Mary Murphy
Toronto
March 14, 2023
My condolences to Ugo's family and friends. I remember chatting and sharing a laugh at court. He was always helpful and kind to me. May...
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Pharah Bacchus
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo is a fine gentleman who will be missed but not forgotten. Ever thoughtful, passionate, and energetic, it is a blessing to know you. ...
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Ryan Wilson
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I worked with Ugo when I did a stint at Jarvis a few years back. He had a great sense of humour and irony. I know he leaves behind young ...
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Lynne Bridger
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I always looked forward to seeing him at court and loved schmoozing with him. He was a wonderful guy and will be very much missed.


Matthew Friedberg
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo, you were always a gentleman to me, kind, cheerful and honest. I will miss you my dear.


Kelly Smith
Toronto
March 14, 2023
We have lost a very good man. Safe travels, old friend!


Paul Calarco
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo was a fine lawyer who fought tirelessly for young people in our youth criminal court..


Justice Ellen Murray
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I am so sad to hear of Ugo's passing. He was a wonderful man and he will be missed by many. Sending love to his family and friends.


Nancy Laton
Toronto Crown's Office
March 14, 2023
I had many trials with Ugo and we became friends. He has a special place in my heart as part of my work family. I will miss him.


Jody Milstein
311 Jarvis
March 14, 2023
Ugo's passing is truly tragic. He was always a friendly face in the court hallway. He will be deeply missed. My deepest condolences to his...
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John Navarrete
Toronto
March 14, 2023
Ugo was a wonderful husband father and advocate. We toiled together in the Scarborough Court "trenches" for close to three decades. He...
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Paul Amenta
Pickering
March 14, 2023
A fine lawyer. RIP


Philippe Benayon
Toronto
March 14, 2023
I am heart broken to hear this news. He was so young and so full of life and good mischief. Ugo was a sincere, honest and loyal friend. He...
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Sussana Branco
Scarborough Legal Aid Ontario
March 14, 2023

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